Dresscapades

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as I write this I’m curled up in my bed watching The Walking Dead, periodically peeking out the window to see how much snow has accumulated. Between Wednesday and today (Saturday… I wrote this Saturday) the weather has worked mightily to piss me off: unscheduled icy windshield 15 minutes before catching a train to work, …

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building or rather re-building your wardrobe is not the short distance race I tend to treat it as. After a bout of buyer’s remorse–left still wanting more (to go with this shirt or for a second option with that dress)–I have to give myself the “from now on, one treat a paycheck” lecture or “one splurge a …

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whenever I get questions and compliments about my hair it, quite honestly, boggles the mind. Not because my hair is in some irreparable state and not because it’s hidden under scarves and protective styles but because… I manage to put forth the least effort possible to achieve natural hair equanimity.

welp, Christmas is almost upon us which means you’re probably feeling the pressure of shopping for family and friends. So that I don’t lose sight of CHRISTmas in midst of the consumerist culture that has increasingly surrounded the holidays, I like put a lot of thought and love into the few gifts I purchase for …

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if you know me at all, then you know how fickle I can be; how indecisive and at times not passionate enough. It can be frustrating. I’ve known myself too often to just let the cards fall where they may and accept it. If the world says I can’t be a writer then I guess, …

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refinery29’s list of “The 30 Saddest Breakup Songs of All Time” provides a soundtrack befitting a Hollywood style uncoupling. With tracks like Bonnie Rait’s “I Can’t Make You Love Me,” Adele’s “Someone Like You,” and the No Doubt classic “Don’t Speak,” these songs can surely help express the inexpressible and messy feelings that come with a …

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it was Wednesday and raining. I was dreading the traffic I’d encounter on the way home and then my mind drifted into the danger zone: Are my dreams far-fetched and unattainable? Should I rethink some things? Am I doing this in vain?–you know, typical Wednesday thoughts. Then I see it:  adorned on a simple canvas ModCloth tote these …

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